Learn the art of meaningful connection.
Integrated coaching to enhance how you relate to yourself, others and the world around you.
Receive integrative, personalized relationship coaching designed to support your journey of growth and fulfillment. Together, we will focus on your unique personal and relational goals, such as strengthening communication, cultivating self-awareness, building confidence, and creating harmony in both your work and home life.
Virtual Sessions
Enjoy tele-coaching from wherever you happen to be. Select a voice call, an email, and growth packages available for you to explore on your own time from wherever you are.
Human Connection
Activity sessions are great for those wishing to be more fully engaged through a walk, body doubling, or other active project. This is an excellent way to meet goals as well as keep mind and body healthy and working together, and when we’re our healthiest, we can be healthier partners in healthier relationships.
Valerie’s Approach
Valerie brings careful attention to the many elements that shape success in being a better partner to yourself and others. Thoughtful and perceptive, she asks insightful questions that encourage deeper understanding and a broader perspective on your experiences. With a holistic approach rooted in the mind–body–spirit connection, she emphasizes whole-person exploration rather than relying on a single method or technique.
Her sessions are guided by genuine interest, a personable style, and a preference for “real talk” over jargon. Committed to ongoing learning, Valerie continually integrates new skills and wisdom to ensure your sessions remain fresh, relevant, and effective.
Whether clients seek self-exploration through creative modalities, psychological inspired analysis, pragmatic strategy for transformative change, or general supportive care, Valerie engages with a combination of generous warmth, strong intuition and an expectation to help clients achieve the results they need.
Some Services
Expressions Coaching
Communicate better
Develop self-understanding, humility, creativity and your personal voice. Learn how to overcome ego and repair relationships by writing accountability letters. Take power back by rewriting your life story and become better at the art of gracefully navigating difficult conversations through creative expression coaching.
Designing An Intimate Space
Aesthetic Allure
Our surroundings impact our ability to connect with ourselves and others. Learn how to declutter, organize, clean and decorate in a way that doesn’t just look good, but delivers a message, engages the senses and increases a mood for connection.
Freedom Strategy
Your personal exit plan
Stuck in a toxic relationship or living situation? Through visioning, creating awareness of personal patterns, challenging limiting beliefs and exploring practical solutions, we will develop a realistic plan to help you exit the routine that’s preventing you from becoming the fulfilled person you deserve to be.
Dating & Relationship Coaching
Work better together
All relationships face challenges. Learn how to be better at working through obstacles together by developing your communication skills, critically reevaluating your values and beliefs, creating authentic intimacy and boosting confidence in yourself and each other.
Meet Val
Valerie Bell, M.A
Certified Dating Coach / PsyD Candidate
Valerie is a doctoral candidate of counseling psychology and registered mental health clinician specializing in intimacy and relationship concerns. Currently completing her dissertation on Jungian shadow work and sexuality, she is also preparing for psychologist licensure in California through her private practice training.
Before her psychology career, Valerie worked across entertainment and media, experiences that gave her rare insight into the role of fantasy, vulnerability, and desire in shaping human intimacy. These perspectives continue to inform her integrative, relational approach — where curiosity, compassion, and a respect for the full spectrum of human experience are central.
Beyond her supervised clinical and academic work and her independent work as a coach and consultant, Valerie thrives as a creative force. She is the organizer of Dîner En Feu, and enjoys creating media for her Patreon, both meant to bring people together to engage in important, thought provoking, discussions that are all too often avoided.
